InTheBuff - CYBER FRIENDS - Do they last? - Comments

Cyber friends.

nudrun — Sun, 28 Sep 2008 13:23:00 +0000

I totally agree with ukduo. As much as I enjoy being naked either alone or in company, there is surely just so much that one can say about preferring not to wear clothes?
I have two or three long time nudist internet friends who have remained that way simply because we have a number of other interests in common. Of course we exchange nudist experiences and photographs but recognise that however much we enjoy it, social nakedness is but one part of our lives.

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ukduo2004 — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 15:49:30 +0000

Sometimes they can last, it depends on how much effort each person puts into it.

The problem with cyberspace is that its like the Tardis.
Your 'friends' are inside that little box on your knee or under the desk, until you want to physically meet when they end up 50, 500, 5000 miles away.

We've met people off here, and other nudist sites and got on great with them. But we can't accommodate because of the kids, and even a journey of 50 miles can be a real pain if you have been at work all week, the weathers awful, your partner has a headache, the cars playing up....etc.

And so the friendship slides away, you want to stay friends but things get in the way.

Even people who are relatively local can start as friends but slide if you find that nakedness is all you have in common.

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BeeJay — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 19:23:34 +0000

bjpickering
Reading your comments i find that you where very fortunate that you and susan got together, There are quiter afew of us who are married but the partner is not interested in nudism in any shape or form therefore we are hampered in a way I have been on my own bathing and did go to a swim in Leeds regulary but at the final meeting I was not accepted as they had enough single males already members, I must admit I was very disappointed . i have had chats with other people (nudists ) and found it interesting but going back to my first comment i cannot get away on my own often there fore making it difficult to meet people.

CYBER FRIENDS - Do they last?

Brian and Susan — Fri, 11 Jul 2008 12:47:38 +0000

Looking at the map and where folks live confirms that we are spread far and wide.
Some times you might go to a Beach, a Swim or other event and meet up with friends that you have made contact with though such a site as ITB.

We wonder though, what happens to those folks that just make contact via a Personnal Message or chat on line, does the contact last and friendship last or do they 'Fade away'

Susan and I met via the Internet and the result was that we have been a Couple for 2 years now!

Brian and Susan