InTheBuff - ARE GAY MALES PREDITORY? - Comments

Erm...

Paulchen — Tue, 06 May 2008 16:52:12 +0000

There is that, too, B & S...

Life of Pete Burns

Brian and Susan — Tue, 06 May 2008 06:30:25 +0000

When we cribbed the article about Pete Burns problems from the Daily Mail we wondered how much was connnected with his life style and perhaps a need for self publicity. His last major exposure on T.V was in Celibrity Big Brother and the Civil Partnership some 10 months ago. He was dressed as a 'Geisha Girl' Perhaps the money from the Photo Rights has all been spent?

oggled

toadie — Mon, 05 May 2008 18:40:36 +0000

i think the ogglers on studland are not a problem at all. I have been using Studland now for 11 years and in that time have only felt "oggled" twice. The main problem on Studland beach is that the dunes should be so off limits to my kids because of selfish people doing far more than oggling. to the main question I too agree most men have it in them to be preditory (try being a naturist lady in a chat room!!)
love toadie

On the other hand...

Paulchen — Mon, 05 May 2008 13:50:14 +0000

I understand that the main problem on Studland Nudist Beach is the straight males oggling the women, and whilst their husbands/partners are there. So much so that they write "No perverts" or something in the sand.

Either way, I agree with pastyman. Nudist or not, all men are capable of being preditory.

Re: Are Gay Males Predatory?

pastyman — Mon, 05 May 2008 13:07:19 +0000

IMHO..... ALL males are biologically the hunters and so by definition are capable of being predatory . The vast majority of us learn fairly early on that we have to curb our predatory instincts.
In this respect, Gays are no different to Straight males. Socially we must accept the need to behave and control our instincts.
Why should our gender awareness and sexual preferences have anything to do with our social obligations?
"Live and let live " is the important issue, NOT who is in bed with whom.
Gay or Straight,....Who someone wishes to have a sexual relationship with, is only the business of the participants and a matter for mutual consent and of course, subject to the laws of the land.

ARE GAY MALES PREDITORY?

Brian and Susan — Mon, 05 May 2008 08:17:50 +0000

With so many Males appearing on Naturist Web Sites and declaring themselves to be either Gay or Bi, we wonder if what Pete Burns the singer (Part of the Band Dead or Alive) is reported as saying is correct? Pete, was married to a woman for 28 years and just 10 months after his Civil Partnership to Michael Simpson, he is now declaring that Gay Relationships are like the 'Commercial Break' rather than the 'The Full Movie'. He also claimed that there was too much promiscuity in the gay community for Civil Partnerships to survive. Since Dec 2005 and the Civil Partnership Act coming into force, there have been over 18,000 C.P's and as spokesman for Stonewall the Gay Rights organisation said this has brought joy and fulfilment to thousands of couples. Just as in Marriage, some relationships will fail,
Michael Simpson who is alleged to have broken Pete's collar bone during an assault last week was unavailable for comment. Pete's other comments included that he viewed Marriage and C.P's as a 'Sacred Instiution' he also said, 'I have learned the hard way'. Pete's last significant T.V appearance was in Celebrity Big Brother in 2006 - since then he has been advertising hair products.